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Before You Can Set Boundaries, You Need Space 5 Ways to Create Space for Yourself We know why setting boundaries is so difficult. We fear the reaction. We fear they'll leave. We fear disappointing someone. We fear being called selfish. And we know why setting boundaries is necessary. We need our sanity. We need balance. We need to protect our time, energy, and well-being. We need room to breathe. But what we rarely talk about is space. In my healing framework, space is your c

I recently read a social media post that said, “You will inspire some and trigger others. Both are medicine.” I completely disagree. Triggers are not medicine; they are stimuli that can shrink your emotional capacity in the moment and disrupt your rhythm. When our emotional capacity narrows, we have less space to respond intentionally. We may fall into familiar protective patterns instead of acting from awareness. This is why space, awareness, and rhythm are foundatio

Healing isn't something you do to eventually get back to living. Healing is the practice of living. In my Wild Moon Healing framework, healing and living are one and the same. Healing isn't a project you complete. You don't cross a finish line where you finally become healed enough to begin your life. In this framework, the opposite of living isn't dying. It's surviving. The rhythm of survival is unconscious and protective. When we stay in that rhythm too long, our worl

When you begin healing—especially spiritually—you may start noticing things you once overlooked. Repeating numbers. Small moments that made you pause. A feeling that showed up without explanation. Maybe it was subtle. Maybe it surprised you. Or maybe you realized how much you've been missing. Not because it wasn't there before. But because you weren't looking. It’s easy to believe that everything you’re noticing now is a message. That the universe is trying to tell you someth

What if wellness isn't something we pursue only because we don't want to get sick? What if wellness is how we build the capacity to live our lives the way we actually want to? Wellness isn't the absence of sickness. It's the ongoing practice of having a relationship with yourself. Focusing on wellness is an investment in your capacity. Physically, we can support our bodies. Emotionally, we can build the capacity to feel without becoming consumed by what we feel. Mentally, we

As the seasons change, each zodiac sign brings a different kind of medicine. Not medicine in the sense that something is wrong with you or needs fixing. Medicine as an energy, practice, or perspective that may help you respond to what you are currently experiencing. Libra season begins at the autumn equinox. In the Northern Hemisphere, it opens fall—the Full Moon phase of the natural year and the season of revelation, visibility, and harvest. But fall may be the Full Mo

As seasons transition, they carry healing lessons. In the Northern Hemisphere, summer—the Waxing Moon phase of the natural year—flows into fall, its Full Moon phase. But fall may be the Full Moon phase of the year without being the phase you are living through personally. We’ll come back to that. Do you know the saying, “I can’t see the forest for the trees”? During fall, the leaves begin to drop, and our field of vision expands. We can see what summer's fullness prev

It's really this simple: Love involves action. Sorry requires change. Trust needs proof. That is how trust and respect grow. It doesn't matter whether we are talking about your relationship with someone else or your relationship with yourself. The rules for rebuilding trust don't change. You have just moved through a Pisces Full Moon—a moment that asked you to trust what was being revealed. But trusting yourself does not mean blindly accepting every feeling as fact. It does n

We’ve just entered Virgo season—a time to refine what we unearthed under Leo. Virgo encourages us to create a plan for what we've discovered, but its cautious nature can make us question what to do next. The Pisces Full Moon reminds us that healing and refinement also require trust. Together, they invite you to trust what's being revealed. Pisces Full Moon healing begins when you stop dismissing what you feel and start trusting what your experience has shown you. Pay at

You don't create your authentic self. You unearth it. You uncover it. You return to it. The real you never left. She's been there all along. Fear and trauma can hide the real you. But they cannot erase you. Beneath every protective layer... You are still you. Healing isn't about becoming someone else. Healing is excavation for the soul. Carefully brushing away everything that convinced you you weren't enough. It's about removing the layers of fear, survival, expectations, o

People don't always know they're surviving until they accidentally spend a weekend living. That's what happened to me. I spent a weekend laughing, trying new things, connecting with people, and remembering what it felt like to simply be myself—not the author, the healer, the employee, or the person managing a chronic illness. Just... me. When I came home, I expected to feel grateful for the memories and relaxation. Instead, I came home with something I wasn't expecting. A dee

What if healing isn't changing who you are... What if healing is finally becoming safe enough to be who you've always been? An Aquarius Full Moon gives us a little winter healing in the middle of summer. Six months ago, you planted a seed to discover more of your individuality. You started questioning old systems, old identities, and old ways of moving through the world. Now it's time to see what's grown. The version of you you've been cultivating is ready to step into the li

The question isn't, "Why do I feel this way?" It's, "What phase am I in?" Moon phases aren't just events in the sky—they're a map for understanding the different seasons of healing we all move through. When you discover your phase, you begin to understand what your healing needs next. Have you ever felt lost? Stuck? Overwhelmed? These aren’t things to judge. It’s information to become aware of. I help people navigate their healing path by helping them to find their rhythm

What if the things you've spent your whole life chasing were never meant to last? We spend our lives chasing happiness... And wondering why we can never seem to catch it. We chase confidence. Balance. Peace. Motivation. Certainty. Perfection. Not because wanting those things is wrong. But because we've quietly convinced ourselves they're places we're supposed to arrive. "If I can just get there..." Then I'll finally feel okay. But what if those places don't exist?

We've spent the first part of the lunar year taking action, creating stability, and learning to understand ourselves. Now Cancer energy asks us to pause—not to stop moving forward, but to take a moment to notice what we're carrying as we continue. Feelings don't disappear simply because we ignore them. They wait. And eventually, they become the lens through which we experience everything else. The Wisdom of Cancer Energy Right now, we are flowing from first-quarter

Life Alignment Under the Capricorn Full Moon It's human to protect ourselves when we've been hurt. Sometimes that protection looks like boundaries. Sometimes it looks like independence. And sometimes it looks like isolation. The Capricorn Full Moon invites us to explore our alignment in life by illuminating the difference between protecting ourselves and shutting ourselves down. The Sun is in Cancer, the sign of emotional safety, comfort, and protection. Cancer teache

This Capricorn Full Moon may be illuminating the places where self-protection has quietly become self-abandonment. Sometimes protection becomes so familiar that we stop noticing when it has become a cage. My cage became my couch. If I could wrap my anxiety into one statement, it would be this: The couch asks nothing of me. The world does. And maybe that's what emotional self-protection really is. Not laziness. Not a lack of motivation. Not a lack of discipline. Protection. So

I don’t think we talk enough about the one voice that can override every other voice in the room. This is the truth about healing no one prepares you for. When “I’m Proud of You” Never Comes Why is it… that you can hear it from everyone else— “You’re amazing.” “I’m proud of you.” “You’ve come so far.” —and it still doesn’t land? Because the one person you need to hear it from… the silence from them feels louder than everything else combined. The truth about healing is this k